A Woman For All

by Betty Nakpil

A WOMAN FOR ALL
by Betty Nakpil

St. Francis de Sales once said, “There is nothing small in the service of God.”

This could not ring truer when in regards to the life of Doris Nakpil. It is a rare ability to be able to transform the most ordinary tasks into the extraordinary, to make small acts of love seem like lifelong commitments, but anyone who has met Doris knows this talent comes to her with ease.

She is a familiar face to many in the larger RC community in Manila - throughout the years, she has dedicated herself to countless projects across varying apostolates. As a member of the RC Women’s section, she has participated in and helped organize initiatives with Family Missions, Kasambahay Kasambuhay, the Pilgrim Queen of the Family, and the Divine Mercy Chaplet. Most notably, she is one of the pioneer parents of Everest Academy, and has not only witnessed the school grow over the years, but helped in its development. As someone deeply involved in her children’s lives and a frequent homeroom parent, she is often found in the halls and events of the school. Someone who has never met her previously might, at first, be struck by her vibrant demeanor and her ability to make those around her at ease. But beyond that, they might wonder what it is like to truly be familiar with her, to know who she is beyond her initial impression. And perhaps those who are closest to Doris will give you different answers.

To her children, she might be a warm smile at the end of a tiring day, a tight hug when things aren’t going so well, a kiss on the forehead after a long time apart. To friends, perhaps she is a genuine ear, a faithful shoulder to lean on, a lifelong companion. But for all these answers, one thing remains consistent: she will never hesitate to drop everything in the moment if you are in need of her help, support, or company.

There is no doubt that after years of helping build the RC community in Manila, she has become not only both a spiritual and emotional pillar for many of those around her, but an illuminating light that imparts wisdom to those who are lucky enough to meet her. She is often jokingly referred to as “Mother Superior” by her RC friends, not only because of the respect that she has earned, but because of the way that she has inspired and cared for her closest friends. Her ability to look after others comes to her naturally, and just as importantly, she has always valued looking after her own spiritual wellbeing; in the busyness of her life - from raising four children to helping run different businesses - she has never failed to reserve time for both her prayer journey and spiritual service.

Indeed, she has led a fulfilling life that has taken her to many different countries and cities, but she is now grounded in Manila by her commitment to her church, community, friends, and family. From the most mundane like cooking at home, beading rosaries, and to the most divine such as spreading the word of God and receiving the sacraments, everything she does is done with the deepest humility. As a model of silent prayer, unwavering faith, and fervent mission work, she has always attributed all her accomplishments and blessings to God. There is no doubt that she will continue to guide those around her closer to Jesus.

About the Author

Betty Nakpil is the second of Doris’ children. A pioneer student and graduate of Everest Academy, it was because of this that Doris first became involved with Regnum Christi. She now helps Doris with the family business, Betty’s Best, while taking online classes at Columbia University.